I (21F) told my (23M)boyfriend that I have an interest in a threesome.
Like the title said, ask my boyfriend about his fantasies to which he told me that he didn’t have any and asked me about mine. I am bisexual, and I have been with females before and recently have been having an urge to be with a woman sexually. Not saying that my partner doesn’t please me because he definitely does. It’s just something I’ve always wanted to try. I love my boyfriend and he loves me and we have a very good healthy relationship. I brought it out with my partner which he was very accepting and open, but more confused than anything.
He thought that I was trying to set him up because it’s weird from a man standpoint that his girlfriend is asking for a threesome which to me I guess makes sense but at the same time it’s my fantasy.
He has been dwelling on this for the past few days and has even told me that he would be okay if I had sex with women and explore my sexuality with women he even brought up me having a girlfriend but honestly to me I feel like that’s cheating and I wouldn’t do that to him, but in his mind that he’s okay with it, which doesn’t make sense.
Has anyone else felt this type of way or had something similar happened to them? Am I weird for bringing that to him?
TL;DR: I told my boyfriend that my fantasy is having a threesome and he told me that it’s ok if I sleep with women or get a girlfriend.