u/liyah1717

i truly wish i could find my community in person. don’t get me wrong i have queer friends of color but i feel like i have “too many” intersectionalities to feel fully free and connected. i’m a fat, black, queer, cis woman, and chronically ill. i’ll meet people who are somewhat similar but they might struggle with fatphobia (which is understandable because we are in a fatphobic society) or i can’t meet with people in my nearest major city due to health flare ups. i really just desire to be seen and understood w all of my nuances, but i feel like i have to sacrifice being fully visible sometimes just for my other identities to be accepted.