u/laura-1998

Which seventeen moment lives in your head rent free?

Every fan probably has at least one moment they randomly remember and laugh about. Maybe something from Going Seventeen, a live stream, or a performance moment. Those little moments can be surprisingly memorable. What Seventeen moment do you still think about randomly?

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u/laura-1998 — 18 hours ago

I escaped my childhood home years ago… now I own it

I grew up without my parents… they died in a car accident when I was 6, so my aunt raised me. She had a daughter of her own, and growing up, it was pretty obvious I was always the outsider in that house. She constantly compared us, and it never really felt like she wanted me there in the first place

Honestly, I spent most of my childhood counting down the days until I could leave for college and finally leave that awful house. As dumb as it sounds, Cinderella was probably my favorite story as a kid because I related way too much to the whole living in someone else’s house where you don’t really belong thing

When I was younger, my aunt sold my parents’ old house. Part of the money went into a college fund for me, and the rest basically went toward raising both my cousin and me. Then after a while we moved out of this tiny, cramped place into a bigger house, and that old place became a rental property she barely kept up with

Recently my aunt passed away and my cousin inherited the main house, which made total sense since she was her daughter. But I didn’t expect to inherit anything. I’ve already built my own life anyway and graduated college, got married, have kids, and own a house

Then I found out what I inherited, which was that old tiny house

And man… it’s rough… Years of deferred maintenance, half-done fixes, things broken everywhere. Walking into it honestly brought back a lot of feelings I thought I’d moved past already. At some point I even think that with this house my aunt just wanted to express how she hates me. You know like you like wow… she left me something, and when you see the place you like hear go ya!!

I don’t even want to deal with it…

I think to sell it for cash to Ready Door Homes, who are ready to pay straight away, and close that chapter completely. I don’t even feel guilty about it, I just wanna forget about this whole thing and never see that house again

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u/laura-1998 — 20 hours ago
▲ 5 r/FIlm

There are films that are technically impressive, great cinematography, direction, all that, but they don’t really stay with me. Then there are simpler films that might not be as polished, but hit emotionally and stick in my head. I’m starting to think I care more about how a film makes me feel than how “well made” it is on paper. Curious if others feel the same or if you lean more toward technical appreciation.

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u/laura-1998 — 7 days ago

I know these posts probably sound made up but I have the journal entry to prove it to myself at least.

Back in February I wrote out a very specific scenario - the conversation, the setting, even how I'd feel in the moment. I wrote it like it already happened and then genuinely tried to forget about it and stop obsessing.

Got a call this morning. It played out almost word for word

I don't fully understand how any of this works and honestly I don't need to anymore. Just wanted to share because I was the person lurking in here three months ago not sure if any of this was real.

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u/laura-1998 — 8 days ago

Thinking about checking out my first estate sale this weekend and not totally sure what to expect.

Is it more like a casual browse, or do people line up early and rush in?

Also wondering if prices are usually firm or if there’s room to negotiate, especially later in the day.

Any basic tips so I don’t look completely clueless?

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u/laura-1998 — 8 days ago

We recently started working with clients outside the US, and one thing I completely underestimated was how complicated legal translation can get. Contracts, NDAs, service agreements. You know… at first I assumed it was mostly about translating text accurately, but it turns out wording matters a lot more when legal meaning is involved. Especially when you aren’t a lawyer at all, and even reading it in your language can sound confusing.

We initially tried using a freelance translator we found through a marketplace because the pricing seemed reasonable. The translation looked fine in the beginning, but when one of our overseas clients reviewed the agreement with their lawyer, they pointed out several phrases that were technically correct but let’s say, legally ambiguous in their country

That made me realize legal translation is very different from marketing or website content. Small wording differences can completely change interpretation, especially across jurisdictions.

Now I’m looking into agencies instead of individual freelancers because I’d rather have a process with review and specialization. I’ve been considering Ad Verbum since they seem to work with business and legal translations specifically, but I’m still comparing options.

Curious how others handle this, do you rely on agencies, legal translators, or local lawyers to review everything before sending documents internationally?

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u/laura-1998 — 9 days ago

 I was looking at a map of Europe and noticed almost every capital is on a river. London on Thames, Paris on Seine, Vienna on Danube, Berlin on Spree, Rome on Tiber. Same pattern in other continents too. I get the historical reasons. Water for drinking, transport of goods, defense moats. But why did most of them stay as capitals after trains and planes and roads took over? Is there still a functional advantage to being on a river today or is it just path dependency at this point? Also curious about exceptions. Capitals that are not on major rivers. Canberra, Brasilia, maybe others. Why did those break the pattern and did it work out well for them? Not looking for a simple because water is useful answer. More interested in how much of this is legacy versus active economic benefit in 2026

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u/laura-1998 — 9 days ago

I’ve been trying to sell my house for about six months now, and honestly, it’s been a grind. I’ve gone through a couple of different realtors, made all the usual make it more appealing tweaks, fixed what I could on a tight budget, even dropped the price more than once. At one point I went as far as planting flowers out front just to make it look a bit more inviting.

Still… nothing. A few showings here and there, but no serious offers. It’s starting to feel like I’m just spinning my wheels at this point.

Saw that one agency saying they buy houses in any condition, no matter what. I’ve seen similar things before and always kind of brushed them off, but now I’m curious enough to at least see what they’d actually offer. At this stage I’m not even expecting anything close to market value and I’m more wondering how far below it they typically go, and whether it’s worth just cutting my losses and moving on.

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u/laura-1998 — 9 days ago

Hey everyone,

I just got back from my first solo trip and honestly, almost everything that could go wrong, did. I missed my train in the first two hours, lost my power bank, and spent an entire afternoon wandering around in the rain because I couldn't find my hostel.

But here’s the weird part: it was the best week of my life.

Back home, I’m the person who overthinks every little detail, but being on my own forced me to just... figure it out. There’s something so liberating about realizing that if you mess up, you’re the only one who has to deal with it. No one was there to judge me or be annoyed, so I just laughed it off and found a local bakery to wait out the storm.

I’m already planning the next one, but I want to be a bit more prepared this time.

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u/laura-1998 — 12 days ago

My dad had a transplant 3 weeks ago and now has a rash on his palms and chest. The doctors said it might be GVHD, but they were pretty calm about it, and that immediately made me more worried.

So as I understand it, when you get a STEM CELL transplant, the donor's immune cells essentially come into your body, and sometimes they don't recognize it. And they start to attack. The rash is the most obvious sign of that, but there's also "silent" damage going on, like liver enzymes going up or gut problems, stuff you can't see and only blood work will pick up.

The crazy thing for us is that a mild GVHD could mean that the new immune system is actually working and fighting off any remaining cancer cells. So it's not necessarily bad news.

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u/laura-1998 — 13 days ago