u/kyoto_haru

Hello everyone,

Enthella..🌚

This girl is here with a pidikittatha preshnm in her life happening rn.

So, I dated a guy for few months while i was studying in a a different place from my hometown. We got connected via my friend. Like he was my friends classmate. We started talking and he used to laugh at my half kannada. He said it was cute. So, after a while my friend and the gang I was in split up because we had our internal issues. I was all alone and this guy started coming by and we got close. That's how we started dating.

This guy was too sweet. Too sweet matlab too sweet. He wouldn't even fight with me. It felt like he is admiring me a little too much. I started feeling this isn't right for me. I told him this isn't working for me and broke up. He started begging and i told him it's my fault and not his and tried to convince him. But he didn't listen to me at all. So, i blocked his number on WhatsApp,calls and Instagram. But he started messaging me on telegram and i blocked him there. Then he started sending me long paragraphs on gmail. I had to delete my gmail because of all this. He apparently had told his parents about me that he wanted to marry me. (Mind you he only know me for 4-5 months max).

All this happened 8 years ago. Fast forward to 2025 I get a follow request on my Instagram of a girl. Let's call her D. I see one mutual and that was my cousin. So, i ask her who is this girl and she says, that's someone she knows from Bangalore. I accept the request because i follow back and accept when it's a girls account. Few days ago i saw the save the date picture in D's account. And guess whom she is marrying? My ex bf of 8 years ago. My overthinking brain hasn't rested ever since then. I don't understand why? This girl has been following me for a year and i didn't have any clue. I can't get my head around why is she following me.

Guys, i would love to hear your insights. Help this girl out 🥺

During her AMA and even before that Ishoo repeatedly spoke about how toxic her ex was. She described him as a narcissist, said the relationship deeply affected her, and made it clear that recovering from it was one of the hardest phases of her life. She openly criticised him multiple times and painted a picture of someone who only cared about himself.

Which is why her story after the election results feels extremely contradictory.

As someone who has personally spoken so much about the damage a narcissistic partner can cause, you would expect her to be more sensitive about situations involving betrayal, selfishness, and disregard for family. Openly celebrating or supporting Vijay despite the cheating allegations and the obvious impact on his wife and children feels tone-deaf coming from someone who constantly speaks about emotional trauma from their partner.

You cannot spend months educating people about how destructive some partners are and then conveniently ignore similar behaviour when it involves someone you like or support. That is where the hypocrisy stands out.

At the end of the day, people are free to support whoever they want. But when you publicly build a narrative around being deeply affected by their exes, people will naturally question the inconsistency when you appear to excuse or overlook the same traits in someone else. Mind you, When Pe10 controversy was happening, She didn't care to post a story or anything supporting the victim as well. Let it sink in.

My ex's fiance follows me on instagram.

Selective Morality? Ishooo's hypocrisy peaks here😅