first wlw breakup but ex gf is rly popular, I need advice
Hi it's my (20F) first time posting here because I really need advice. I was dating a girl for 1.5 years and overall we had a great relationship, not perfect ofc, but we got along extremely well and were always there for each other. It was my first relationship ever and I never loved someone as much as I loved her. We ended up breaking up a few months ago because she realized she's polyamorous even though a week before that she told her mom we were gonna live together in a year. The way she handled things was very hurtful and most of my friends dislike her for it now lol. However, I cannot avoid her because we live in a smaller city with a small ish alt scene and she is the most popular dj here. I keep seeing her everywhere and she's booked for basically every rave I want to go to. Almost everyone who's ever been to one of her sets says she's the best dj they've ever seen. The only person I went on a date with since we broke up actually is now designing her merch bc they met at one of her sets and they didn't know it was my ex. I genuinely cannot escape her and it's driving me crazy. We are not on bad enough terms where I can't stand her but I feel like I cannot move on if I keep seeing her. But I have to!! I cannot even block her or I won't be able to go to events I know I would enjoy. We tried to be low contact for a bit and we even hung out once (should not have done that - lesson learned) because we know we are going to be in each other's lives to at least some extent. She's so successful and I hate seeing people, including our mutual friends, glaze the shit out of her even though she hurt me so deeply. I know it'd be so much easier to move on if I just didn't have to ever see her but I can't not do that. Being in the scene means the world to me and arguably I was the one to introduce her to it in the first place tbh. I wish I could move.
TLDR my ex (first relationship ever) is the most popular dj in our area and I don't want to sacrifice my enjoyment of the scene but I also don't know how to move on if I have to keep seeing her everywhere