u/kpop_anime_304

so my friend got a job two months ago and I was extremely happy for her and was supporting her but then she won’t stop bragging about it.

Everytime we have a conversation she switches it up to speak about her work. Like I remember how I was freaking out bcz my dog was having surgery and then she just started talking to me about work as a “distraction” but really she was just bragging.

And then she keeps bragging abt her salary. And she once told me she wanted to order something when her salary arrives and I said oh yeah me too (obviously implying that I also want to order that thing) so then she goes ahead and says with a mockery laugh “so order it? What? are u also waiting on ur salary?”

Atp i didnt reply and I stopped saying anything whenever she puts her job above everything else including myself.

Plus, she somehow excuses everything for her job but not anything else.

So tell me Whats the best solution cause I am at limit and this isn’t the full story, theres so much more.

So I’ve seen ppl freak out over Sylus and Xavier but why haven’t I seen enough about Rafayel?! LIKE HELLOOOOO THIS CARD IS ACTUALLY INSANE!!! His little sneaky smile while he does what he does (iykyk)

I NEED THIS CARDDDDDDD!!!

(Maybe ppl are speaking abt it but I haven’t seen it yet)

so I’ll try to explain this briefly but I’m really close to this girl and shes my best friend and im even close to her family and shes close to mine.

I almost tell her everything, however i also explained to her that sometimes I need space when something is bothering me before I can actually open up about it. Or sometimes there are things that I wish I could tell u but I can’t bcz it’s not my secret or burden to share. Or sometimes it’s just simply the fact that I always have money problems that affects my mental state and I feel uncomfortable to speak about that with anyone.

So sometimes when she texts me when I’m going through something, I usually say thats im okay or everything is fine, simply bcz Ive never been the type of person who accepted help Bcz I almost never received it.

She used to get upset and say “K”

So then id get even more stressed and get upset over the fact that she’s upset so I decided to speak with her and explain my situation.

I told her that sometimes I just don’t feel like opening up at the moment but once I am comfortable enough to speak or ready enough to talk I will talk to you so please don’t act cold towards me when you know I am already upset

She said okay and apologized then everything was good.

Until she did it again, multiple times.

Everytime id get upset and need my space and time (which btw it’s usually only a day or two) she’d just treat me differently.

I already spoke to her about it and for context she does the same thing when she’s going through something. She always pushes me away and I understand that sometimes a person needs their space to deal with their own problems so I wait for her until shes comfortable enough to speak to me.

And I asked her to do the same with me. But she never did.

Even when we feel a bit distant or that’s something’s wrong, I am quick to start a conversation and ask her Whats wrong.

But she doesn’t do that, even though she feels that we are distant. And I told her why didn’t she say anything if she felt that something was different?

She just said shes not good with communication. Which I totally understand but I can’t always be the one who tries fixing everything.

I don’t know, please tell me if im overthinking it.