After the 300gt goes idle, when I try awakening it, the wheel will turn on but it will continue to be offline in the conspit link software. I have to shut down and reopen the program for it to bring the wheel back “online”. While offline the lights and dash will turn on but not react to any game data. Anyone know why this happens and how to fix this?
Edit: problem seems to have been fixed with recent update
My sister is getting married in June. I (mtf) was looking forward to being able to wear some traditional clothes for the first time. My parents are pretty religious (Muslims) and culturally traditional and have struggled with my gender, though they have been slowly trying to understand and accept me. My sister has generally been pretty supportive though I do feel like she struggles to understand the trans experience. I had brought up how I would be presenting at this wedding as well as how I wanted to wear a traditional fit months ago and thought it wasn’t going to be an issue since no one really gave me any pushback. I did this because I wanted to avoid any problems by dealing with it early especially considering my parents have been too afraid to tell any extended family that I am trans. A week ago my sister tells me that she wants to be supportive and wants me to be there as me, but that I should probably wear something more “androgynous” like a female suit or something along those lines. A dress or traditional outfit basically ruled out. Her reasoning was she thought I would distract from the wedding.
Now I understand the situation she’s in, she has to balance dealing with my parents, culture, as well as being supportive of her trans sister (which again she generally is very supportive). I tried to play along at first but the more it sat with me the more I felt horrible and frankly disgusted with myself. Since then I’ve tried talking to her and told her that I don’t think I could comfortably wear something androgynous and if that I feel so dysphoric that I don’t even want to go to the wedding. I would already personally have to deal with tons of extended family finding out for the first time I’m trans and whatever drama might ensue from that since my parents up till now have essentially hid this fact from everyone.
Im struggling to explain to my sister how this is transphobic and how dehumanizing it feels that my existence is a distraction from her wedding. I’m trying to encourage her to find some trans people and get their perspective but she doesn’t know any personally so I don’t know if she’s going to be able to do so. I think coming from me, anything I say will be interpreted as me being stubborn or inconsiderate to everyone else’s issues.
Anyone have any advice on how to explain to my sister how she is being the opposite of supportive and in fact falling into a transphobic trope?