My friend and neighbor (39F) assaulted my husband (34m) and I am livid. How would you handle the situation?
My best friend and neighbor had a bad year. She has been in treatment for breast cancer and finally finished her tree so we were celebrating. We were out I dinner with other friend and she drank too much but on the way home she kept grabbing my husband’s penis in a “playful” way. He kept telling her to stop but she wouldn’t and then she kept grabbing me and trying to kiss me. She kept calling me beautiful and trying to kiss me and putting her hands in his pants. It was hard because neither of us wanted to be mean and ruin the night but she just wouldn’t take no as no’s
We finally got her home but she was such a mess. I was drunk too so I didn’t even realize the extent to which she was grabbing my husband but he told me and I did realize that he kept sayings stop to her and it was definitely about how she kept moving her hands on his pants.
Before her treatment she would also drink too much and cross boundaries with me and others. She also grabbed our other male friend’s penis and wouldn’t stop after he told her to stop. I maybe didn’t take it seriously enough because he was single but now that she is grabbing at me and my husband I’m just so disgusted.
ON TOP OF ALL THAT SHE IS MARRIED TO A MAN SHE REFUSED TO HAVE SEX WITH FOR FOUR YEARS!!!
I took her at her word that she just doesn’t want to have sex with him but after she keeps pushing herself on other people and especially my own marriage I feel like I want to tell her husband about all of this.
The only reason I’m not telling her husband is because they have a young child together and I don’t want the bad karma of ruining their family and creating chaos for their child.
She really is a bad and evil person. I called her after and told her to never contact me or my husband again. I truly feel like she has a demonic presence.