I got a job offer yesterday but today I had an interview with a job I significantly want more. What do I do?
As the title suggests, I'm in a bit of a pickle. I've been applying to jobs and I've gotten a handful of interviews over the last month.
Yesterday, I finally got an offer. I was so excited and immediately started planning how I would relocate and find housing. When I received the call about the offer, I told the hiring manager as I would need a day or two to make a decision--especially because I didn't know if I could work as soon as they wanted me to. I have to make a decision by the end of the week.
Today I had an interview for another job. I attended the interview because I didn't want to cancel on them at the last minute. To my surprise, this interview went incredibly well. For the first time in a long time, I had great chemistry with everyone in my interview panel. They took the time to discuss all my work duties and work benefits. They also provided positive feedback for just about every question I answered.
Both positions are in the same salary range and consist of just about the same work.
The differences between the jobs are that the one I just interviewed for has a much stronger work-life balance (e.g., the panel made it clear they do not want employees working outside of work hours), there is more room for career growth (e.g., employees have the option to learn new, relevant skills outside of their typical duties if they want), and they offer to pay for community college classes for employees to learn more about programming, statistics, etc. that could be beneficial for the department. There is also tuition reimbursement.
Geographically, the job I interviewed with today is about an hour from a very major city. A few months ago, I got diagnosed with a rare disease. There are about ten hospitals in the US that specialize in my disease. That major city has one of those hospitals. If I accept the job I got yesterday, I would have to travel ~11 hours to see my specialist.
My pickle is that I've been unemployed for three months. There is no guarantee I'm getting the job I interviewed for today. The job I interviewed with today seems more than perfect and I would hate to pass it up if I ever get an offer. I also know how difficult it is to get a job in the first place and would feel stupid for passing my current offer up. My relatives told me to contact the hiring manager of the company I met with today and explain that I have another offer but am more interested in working with them. The company I met with today did not know when they would contact candidates with their decision.
I don't know what everyone else thinks? What should I do? I am still incredibly happy and grateful to have the offer I currently have. This other job is just on my mind and I think I would be so much happier with them. Career growth is the most important thing to me and I think this job I interviewed with today is the best option... but again, I may not get it in the end.