It's not like I say anything weird to my matches. I keep things normal and nice, a little humour, ask about them, tell them about me and answer their questions, keep things light and don't say anything to freak them out or anything questionable. I'm good at texting I believe, certainly not struggling to find anything to say.

But many girls stop texting after 3-4 messages it seems. Trying to work out why.

I do question specifically if they are taking my photos and running them through Google images as a standard thing they do to check out more of who their matches are? If so, I know at least one of my Hinge photos links to Google that has more photos of me, one site in specific showing a photo shoot of me at a film festival, and onwards from that my name is found on Google linking me to my Instagram, my website, my profile on job sites etc.

But though I don't like the photos of me at the film festival and think maybe the girls think I look bad there, there is nothing weird or scary, freaky etc. about me. Nothing personal online, mostly it's my work, which is a good job too.

What do you guys think? Do girls standardly check out their matches on Google after just a few messages? Are there other reasons why they stop talking? Or if they even UNMATCH too?

It's not like I say anything weird to my matches. I keep things normal and nice, a little humour, ask about them, tell them about me and answer their questions, keep things light and don't say anything to freak them out or anything questionable. I'm good at texting I believe, certainly not struggling to find anything to say.

But many girls stop texting after 3-4 messages it seems. Trying to work out why.

I do question specifically if they are taking my photos and running them through Google images as a standard thing they do to check out more of who their matches are? If so, I know at least one of my Hinge photos links to Google that has more photos of me, one site in specific showing a photo shoot of me at a film festival, and onwards from that my name is found on Google linking me to my Instagram, my website, my profile on job sites etc.

But though I don't like the photos of me at the film festival and think maybe the girls think I look bad there, there is nothing weird or scary, freaky etc. about me. Nothing personal online, mostly it's my work, which is a good job too.

What do you guys think? Do girls standardly check out their matches on Google after just a few messages? Are there other reasons why they stop talking? Or if they even UNMATCH too?