I need help!
Ok so this all started when I started taking my kitty outside for short periods of time so she could come outside with me while I sit on the porch. Jumping to today,my mom got me a little cat walking set (comes with collar, harness, and leash.) so when I got home, I tried to put the harness on her (too small) so I put the collar on her. (She was alr pissed because of the harness) and then the leash, then I let go of her for a split second, then she fan off under my mom’s bed. since the leash was in reach, I tried to pull it (such a dumb move) to get her back from under the bed. she DID NOT like that (obviously) so I left her alone for a while, then when I came back up and tried to gently pet her, she moved back a lot and seemed scared of my hand. Next I tried baiting her with a toy, nothing. So I tried a treat, she came out from the bed for the treat and licked it off my hand, but still wouldn’t let me pet her and immediately went back under the bed. THIRD time I tried I put my hand near here to show her it was safe, sniffed it and immediately tried to bite my finger. I wanna gain her trust back, pls help I feel like I terrible cat owner