u/jengakhan8

Do I need to lock in and start doing stuff for my portfolio?

I’m a 4th year. I haven’t presented at any conferences aside from mandatory ones at my uni that everyone does. My networking is currently 0 , no medical family or family friends, but I have met nice doctors I probably could approach for research and stuff but I just have no ideas about anything, I’m just not really interested in research although it feels like something I need to at least try and start before I finish next year.

I spend a lot of time revising, so much so i sacrificed all hobbies during the most recent exam season so any spare time I get I kind of don’t want to fill it with more academics.

Is this something I should really be stressing over or can it wait until fy1?

I guess how important really is this stuff and do I need to lock in

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u/jengakhan8 — 1 day ago

28M, 23F. He asked his ex for nudes. They were in contact with eachother because they split the year before and attempting to sell their house. His justification was that he wanted to “degrade” her because she was making him so angry?? It doesn’t make sense and is also gross.

The ex contacted me about it. Turns out she was actually an onlyfans model and when he lived with her he took money from her work as he took the pictures for her social media and helped promote it. I didn’t know any of this until she sent me the screenshot of him asking and told me everything.

I’ve been working four years for this exam and now my head is just spinning. He was genuinely the perfect partner before this. My head is so frazzled I am second guessing if breaking up with him was the right choice. Do I forgive ?

Tl:dr- bf asked ex onlyfans model for nudes, jealporised final exam by doing so and is desperate for me not to leave him

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u/jengakhan8 — 14 days ago