My mother says it's normal, but if you know me, and my posts, I might have OCD and I am incredibly scared of pregnancy despite him never being inside of me with his penis. Is it normal? It has happened before once or twice, in which my entire cycle completely changed by a week or two, for context I am 16
I know that this is stupid but I just need someone to tell me that "No, you're not, you're just overthinkint" without calling me names, I just need support. I have been getting my periods, but they have became lighter, and more clotty once me and my partner got more "intimate." (By intimate I mean fingering, dry humping etc., HE WAS NEVER INSIDE OF ME, I know that by now it's just paranoia but I really need a strong "NO TF YOU AINT"). My body has changed, my belly got bigger, I keep feeling weird sensations etc.
Could it be due to me eating differently once meeting my partner, or just my body changing because of hormones?
I know that this is stupid.. sorry
Why do they think they're always right, that we don't struggle. All I asked for was a sleepover with my boyfriend, I even told them I just want to wake up next to him, we don't want to do anything sexual, just sleep. But my parents think that after a sleepover I will all off a sudden have a kid, or 5 atleast, because "We know how it was when we were your age". But they don't understand that I want to marry my boyfriend, I want to stay with him forever.
My father was also an alcoholic, I guess alcoholics never change, he called me a bitch a few days ago, why did my mom let it slide? I don't forget that easly, why did she take it so.. casually. He can call me names but I can't say that I have had enough of everything? That I don't want a father like that? (and don't lecture me about me being a bad kid for saying this, I know what he did to me and how damaged I am because of him.)
I just want to move out as quickly as I can, even if usually it's a loving family, I'm genuinely so done..