u/isgmobile

Should I m55 date a 29m?

I've been seeing this guy for a few weeks now and we really connect and get along really well. I've been single for a few years now and have never found a guy like him who checks all my boxes.

The only challenge I have is the age gap and its mostly me feeling guilty for dating a younger guy. I feel I'm wasting his time and worry about getting old on him. He's been in a LT relationship with an older guy my age before and is used to the age gap. He likes older guys.

His age doesn't bother me other than the guilt feelings. He's smart, mature, independent and has a great career. I can see a future with him.

I also have kids a few years younger than him. He's not concerned about that and I not either. It may be awkward for my kids at first but I think they'd be ok with it.

How do I deal with these guilty feelings? Should I even be pursuing this? Any other couples deal with this and make it work? Thoughts and advice appreciated.

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u/isgmobile — 6 days ago