UPDATE : Thank you whoever said stop sending him nudes you'll see if It's love or lust
Last post- https://www.reddit.com/r/LDR/s/pH5NYCUHH9
So i talked to him about this and reassured me at that moment that he didn’t love me for my nudes, he genuinely love me. His statement gave me a huge relief.
After that night he slowly stop showing the excitement to see me, stopped texting me frequently and in 4 days he didn’t even tell me i love yous for once. Last night again i initiated the conversation about this, i asked him if he wanna end this relationship or not he told me as you think i was using you like a toy that's why i stopped asking for anything, now if you want to end this you can or you can still be my friend , i wish you the best. He even said ''Bye''.
I was like the the guy who told he loves me more than anything how could he pull back all of sudden. I'd like to mention we are talking. But he's texting me very casually and I'm getting seenzoned most of the time. I know what i should do now but i can't just stop talking to him cause it hurts.
I'll stop replying him slowly. I know It'll get better and i will move on someday but at this point I'm so hurt. It feels very heavy on my heart. This was my 3rd serious relationship, we even talked about our marriage and moving in together. The heartache is killing me. Am i just not supposed to be loved?? I got cheated in my past two relationship. I was loyal and it always happens to me.