I finally told her
My wife and I have been together since 2011 and while I’ve internally questioned my “straightness” for quite a while, and while I’m sure she had suspicions (I LOVE being pegged & sucking on the strapon, and she’s info gay porn, which I’m always willing to watch with her and we talk out how hot it is - among other things), it’s just never been something we really talked about.
It’s really been weighing on me lately so yesterday I told her I was struggling with a me-thing. I said I’m feeling super confused lately and kind of off in that it’s obvious I’m not gay, but I don’t feel straight either. She said “maybe you’re having a sexual evolution and you’re bi?” Her. Words. Not mine. It was SUCH a relief to hear her say that in a comforting way - zero judgement, zero concern, really it was just love. Not to mention that the weight I had been carrying disappeared SO quickly.
After talking for a bit I said I just didn’t know where things go from here. And her (perfect) reply was “Look - I love you and I always have. We’ve got our whole life together to figure out what this means for you.” and followed that up with a hug and an incredibly loving soul-bonding type of a kiss.
Last night we had next-level sex and I could tell through some of the things we did that a little door had been opened in her as well.
We’ll see where this goes, but the first steps were wonderful! Here’s to the future….