Telling your flatmate when people are round - standard or overstepping?
My flatmate wants me to tell her when I have people round. I'm used to having an open door policy with friends - if they're nearby, they can drop in and be hosted.
When we met, I stressed how much I enjoyed hosting. It's such a good space to share.
Personally, I think it's overstepping to ask to be told in advance if someone's coming round - it's rare that I have more than two people over at once.
You live with someone else, what's the difference?