Please help us - 3 months in
I’m at my breaking point. We’ve been patient, tried all the things, read all the books, paid for stupid courses and we are having accidents daily still. 30 month old boy. VERY smart, very verbal, very emotional. Understands the feeling and the action - either states it and we walk over to potty OR states it and just goes wherever on the floor and then says “whoops, pee pee goes in the potty!” And laughs OR doesn’t say anything at all and goes wherever
Did Oh crap method. He’s still naked/pants off at home now like 3 months later. He does Best when he’s naked, then we tried commando and it was a disaster. He won’t pull his own pants down. And will pee and poop in pants and not really care that much or complain for us to “wipe his butt and change”. Underwear are a total no go because they feel too much like diapers.
Do we quit and try again later? Or are we too far along? I feel like we’ve been at it for so long already and he’s only 50/50 at this point. I’m in tears daily cleaning up poop/pee all the time. I’m stressed now and not keeping my calm as well when he has accidents and I’m sure he’s picking up on my frustration :(