27 f, the ways in which my entire family manipulates me is too much 😭I can't handle this life I can't move out I can't get a job cause of whatever I am going through m breaking down each day every hour every minute 😭my family makes sure I don't get peace in any way possible 💔 yeh kab khatam hoga 💔
UPDATE- DINT GO WITH MY MOM although she did accuse me of being manipulate of her anyways peace for some hours at home 🙃!
27F feeling deeply hurt by lifelong emotional neglect and favoritism from my mother.
Triggered after seeing my mom show care to another girl but not to me.
Struggle with manipulation, criticism, and lack of emotional support at home.
Feel overwhelmed, anxious, and seek ways to cope and protect my peace.
SUGGEST HOW TO DENY HER TO TAKE HER SHOPPING IF I DO GIVE IDEAS TO MANIPULATE AND CHEAT HER! M SO DONE WITH MY MOM! TELL ME LINE TO LINE WHAT EXCUSE I SHOULD MAKE AND HOW TO ACTUALLY NOT REALLY HELP HER SHOP EVEN IF I GO ALONG!
27f , as usual the drama at home so recently my mom's friend came over a and he has a daughter her almost of my age who stays in a PG what bothered me is that my mom who doesn't ever talk sweetly to me ever and all the love goes to my younger brother is worried about that girl she said she would take her out someday and expected me to join I straight away denied like mere liye toh aisa kabhi nahi pucha... in fact m the one always requesting my mom to take me out since cause of them I don't have a single girl bestie to even hang out with...
for a trip my mom wants me to shop for her in fact she never wanted a girl child in her life I don't remember a single day she's spoken to me lovingly kindly tell me should I take her shopping tomorrow tell me how to manipulate as she has manipulated me in every way possible from childhood till now
yesterday I was cooking even there my mom manipulated me 😭what takes forty minutes to cook literally took two hours.... and as usual she keeps scolding me in a tone which makes my brain shut....
tell me even if she convinces me to take me out tomorrow for her shopping how should I manipulate her I just hate her I remember when I had a cough for a month and a half none in my family even bothered me to take me to a doctor 💔....
it's 2.45 am and there's hundreds of thoughts running in my brain and I am unable to sleep... there's so much pain m so done 💔with everything happening around
please suggest me ideas how to not get manipulated by her tomorrow!
I just hate the fact that my own family members are never emotionally available for me everyday I need to go through something so heavy when I sleep there's no peace when I wake up its all anxiety how long will this last is there an end to this 😭💔
don't suggest me hangouts since there r none to go with!