u/hanonymous_8v8

I have been in Uk for a while now for work, but if I'm being honest, it's been a really lonely experience so far. My social anxiety makes the thought of just "going to a pub" feel completely impossible, and I often end up staying home because the city feels so big and overwhelming when you're navigating it alone. I'm 34M and desperate to find my people, maybe through something low-key. Does anyone know of any truly gentle, low-pressure spaces where it's okay to be the quiet person while you find your footing? I'm just really tired of feeling like I'm watching the city happen from the outside and would love some help.

About me: I like physical activities like hiking, racquet sports even though haven't played in a while for reasons listed above. I workout regularly. Used to enjoy gaming on consoles/PC but I just play on my phone. Open to exploring other hobbies too.

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Ive been in Uk for a while now for work, but if I'm being honest, it's been a really lonely experience so far. My social anxiety makes the thought of just "going to a pub" feel completely impossible, and I often end up staying home because the city feels so big and overwhelming when you're navigating it alone. I'm 34M and desperate to find my people, maybe through something low-key. Does anyone know of any truly gentle, low-pressure spaces where it's okay to be the quiet person while you find your footing? I'm just really tired of feeling like I'm watching the city happen from the outside and would love some help.

About me: I like physical activities like hiking, racquet sports even though haven't played in a while for reasons listed above. I workout regularly. Used to enjoy gaming on consoles/PC but I just play on my phone. Open to exploring other hobbies too.

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I moved to Uk and near Cardiff for a while now for work, but if I’m being honest, it’s been a really lonely experience so far. My social anxiety makes the thought of just "going to a pub" feel completely impossible, and I often end up staying home because the city feels so big and overwhelming when you're navigating it alone. I’m 34M and desperate to find my people, maybe through something low-key. Does anyone know of any truly gentle, low-pressure spaces where it’s okay to be the quiet person while you find your footing? I’m just really tired of feeling like I’m watching the city happen from the outside and would love some help.

Edit: should’ve mentioned bits about me. I like physical activities like hiking, racquet sports even though haven’t played in a while for reasons listed above. I workout regularly. Used to enjoy gaming on consoles/PC but I just play on my phone. Open to exploring other hobbies too.

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Never thought i'd be in this position. I have two amazing offers and I am just unable to rank them. Both the roles are good and terms of the offer and are almost identical.

Offer 1:

Finance Business Partner - FP&A and Commercial - this is for a PE backed manufacturing company that was carved out of a large FMCG that I have previously worked for. I fit into the team and the role quite well. Final stage interview was basically a lunch with the team.

Offer 2:

FP&A Manager for a soft/energy drinks manufacturer. Listed business, healthy financials and work culture as if its family owned. Final stage interview included meeting with the director and a walk around the factory which is quite impressive. This is not a typical FP&A role. It's more balance sheet/cashflow/M&A/investor relations focused which is bit out of my comfort zone but good opportunity to learn and grow in this company and role. Most of my experience has been with P&L management.

Desperately need some wise words here!

Currently based overseas but looking to move to Islamabad as my parents are based there. They own the house so I’ll be living with them. No other expenses apart from mine and parents.

Got an offer from a global company based in Islamabad of 400k base. I’m aware that the salary is good in general alhamdulilah but what I want to understand is whether it’s good considering the market and years of experience so I can negotiate.

About me, I have a masters degree and a professional accounting qualification. Around 7-8 years of experience working in global FMCG businesses in FP&A and commercial business partnering.

Thank you!