Most people cross their fingers and hope — calculating odds, waiting on luck, and quietly believing winning happens to other people. This tapping session walks you through releasing that old "unlucky" identity and stepping into the self-concept of someone who wins constantly, naturally, and without needing to figure out the how.

Winning isn't about odds. It's about identity. When you assume the feeling of victory before the result, you become the source of the outcome — not a passenger waiting on chance.

This session moves through three rounds — acknowledging the old story of doubt and unworthiness, releasing it completely, and then anchoring in the brand new identity of someone who wins prizes, raffles, money, cars, and whatever else they enter. You were born a winner. This tapping helps you remember that.

Perfect if you:
➤ Keep hoping instead of claiming — you enter things but never really expect to win
➤ Feel like luck is something that happens to other people, not you
➤ Want to embed "I am a natural winner" into your self-concept at an identity level

Timestamps
0:00 Why your identity — not luck — determines what you win
1:04 The old story: calculating odds and hoping instead of claiming
3:08 Let's start the tapping — Karate Chop setup statements
4:38 Bonus: How Kylie applies identity work to health manifestations
6:03 Setup statements begin — "Even though I still have a habit..."
7:58 Round 1: Acknowledging the old identity (hoping, doubt, unworthiness)
10:39 Round 2: Letting go of the unlucky self
12:26 Round 3: Stepping into the winner identity
15:28 Closing visualisation — feel what it's like to be a natural winner

I just want to point out that there is no such thing as "blocks" - they are just thoughts or beliefs and when you ideally shift into the state of the wishfulfilled - these automatically fall away. HOWEVER, in saying that it can be helpful to clear some of the stuff in the way that's perhaps hindering you getting into the state of the wishfulfilled.

To identify your limiting beliefs about manifesting—those subconscious thoughts that hinder your ability to achieve your goals—follow these practical steps:

1. **Reflect on Your Goals and Resistance**: Start by thinking about what you want to manifest, like financial abundance, a new job, or a relationship. Notice any immediate feelings of doubt, fear, or resistance that arise. For example, if you want to manifest wealth but feel uneasy, ask yourself, "What am I afraid of?" or "Why don’t I believe this is possible?" Write down thoughts like "I’m not good enough" or "Money is hard to come by."
2. **Journal Your Thoughts**: Use journaling to dig deeper. Ask questions like:
   * What do I believe about my ability to achieve this goal?
   * What negative thoughts or patterns keep coming up when I think about manifesting this?
   * What did I learn about this topic (e.g., money, success, love) growing up? Common limiting beliefs might include "I don’t deserve success," "Manifesting is unrealistic," or "I always fail."
3. **Notice Self-Talk and Triggers**: Pay attention to your inner dialogue throughout the day, especially when you’re stressed or faced with challenges. If you catch yourself thinking, "This never works for me," or "I’m not the type of person who gets what they want," those are clues to limiting beliefs. Also, notice situations that trigger strong emotions—feeling jealous of someone’s success, for instance, might point to a belief like "There’s not enough to go around."
4. **Examine Past Experiences**: Reflect on past attempts to achieve goals. Did you give up quickly? Did you feel unworthy of success? For example, if you tried manifesting a promotion but didn’t believe you were qualified, you might uncover a belief like "I’m not smart enough" or "Others are always better than me."
5. **Use Visualization to Uncover Blocks**: Visualize yourself achieving your goal in vivid detail. As you imagine it, note any discomfort or negative thoughts that pop up. If you’re visualizing a dream career but think, "This feels impossible," that’s a limiting belief to explore.
6. **Ask Empowering Questions**: Challenge your thoughts by asking, "Is this belief absolutely true?" or "What evidence do I have that contradicts this?" For instance, if you believe "I can’t manifest wealth," recall times you’ve successfully attracted opportunities or resources, no matter how small.
7. **Look for Patterns in Behavior**: Limiting beliefs often show up in self-sabotaging behaviors. If you procrastinate, avoid taking risks, or downplay your achievements, ask why. A belief like "I’m not worthy of success" might be driving those actions.

**Example**: Let’s say you want to manifest a loving relationship but keep thinking, "I’ll never find the right person because I’m too flawed." That belief—"I’m too flawed"—is a limiting one. You can challenge it by listing your positive qualities or recalling past relationships where you were valued.

**Next Steps -**  Once you find your limiting beliefs, find a tapping video on my channel that relates to that subject and tap them out.  :)

Peace Out
x K

You know what quietly keeps desires on hold? The invisible rules you've attached to them.

This is what we call conditioning your desires. Any "I have to first" or "it won't work unless" — these are conditions you've placed between yourself and what you want. And because it's law of assumption, they work perfectly. The condition becomes the assumption, and the assumption becomes the reality.

What it looks like in practice

See how many of these feel familiar:

• I have to feel it real before it will manifest
• I have to reach Sabbath otherwise it won't work
• I have to feel "safe" to manifest
• I need to do nervous system regulation first
• I have to see movement or a sign before I believe it's working
• I have to lose weight before I'm ready for the relationship I want
• I have to be completely healed first
• I need to affirm enough times before my subconscious will accept it
• I have to clear all my blocks first
• I have to "FEEL" insert any feeling here before I will believe it
• I have to feel deserving of it
• I have to detach and stop wanting it before it shows up
• I have to feel certain or be in the KNOWING — any doubt means it's not working
• I need to do the technique perfectly every single night
• I have to have the perfect mental diet

Every single one of these is just another assumption. One that says your desire isn't available to you right now.   These are just some examples, the list could be thousands.

The truth of it

Neville said: "You are already that which you want to be, and your refusal to believe this is the only reason you do not see it."

There is no checklist. There is no process to complete first. Creation is finished. All realities already exist. Your only job is to choose the one you want and accept it as yours — now, not after you've ticked every box.

You are the I AM. God didn't say "let there be light, once conditions are met." There was just light.

The conditions you've placed on your desires aren't requirements. They're assumptions. And like every other assumption, they'll keep showing up in your reality for as long as you hold them.

Drop the conditions. Claim it now.

xx

This is sort of continued on from my last post about affirmations….

[Affirmations Post](https://www.reddit.com/r/lawofassumption/comments/1s7e5mz/affirmations\_are\_not\_used\_to\_get\_something/)

Imagine you are stepping into a brand-new reality, and you decide that you are a powerful king, or a queen, or a brave superhero. To help yourself feel extra brave and strong, you might put on a shiny paper crown or a red superhero cape.

When you hear the phrase "you are the technique," it means that the paper crown and the red cape do not actually have any magic in them. The magic is entirely inside of *you*.

**Techniques Are Just Props** When use "techniques" ..like repeating the same words, writing things down in a notebook, or closing your eyes to picture a scene…..  BUT they are really just like putting on the paper crown and superhero cape. These actions are simply props to help keep your mind focused on the new identity you have chosen.

**You Are the Magic.** The only reason any of these props work is because *you* are doing them, and you are the one with the power. If you decide that wearing a red cape makes you unstoppable, you will act unstoppable. It doesn't work because the fabric is magical; it works because *you* made a firm decision about who you are, and you accepted it as true for you.

**Do Not Give Your Magic Away.** Sometimes, people forget they are the ones with the magic. They start to think the paper crown is the boss. They think, "If I don't wear my crown today, or if I don't say my magic words perfectly, I can't be the king anymore." When you do that, you give your power away to a normal piece of paper.   

"You are the technique" simply means you are the boss, you are the magic, and everything flows through you. You only use the tools when they make the experience more fun for you, or if it helps the "ego mind" to accept the new story - but you never actually *need* them.

Here's the thing: You're asking the wrong question.

The question assumes there are two separate people—you over here with your feelings, and them over there with theirs. But that's not how reality works according to non-duality.

# There's Only One Consciousness

In non-duality, there is no separation. There's not "you" and "them" as two separate beings with two separate sets of feelings.

There's just one consciousness—one awareness—experiencing itself through what appears to be separate forms.

So when you ask, "If I feel strongly about them, do they feel strongly about me?"—you're operating from the illusion of duality. You're thinking there are two of you. But there aren't.

**There's only one consciousness, and you're both it.**

# What Your Feelings Actually Are

Your strong feelings aren't happening in isolation over here while their feelings are happening independently over there.

Your feelings are arising within consciousness. Their feelings are arising within the same consciousness. It's all one movement.

The question isn't whether your feelings create their feelings. The question is: **What state of consciousness is being expressed?**

Because in non-duality and Law of Assumption, everyone is you pushed out. Not in the way most people think—not like they're puppets you control. But because they are literally reflecting back the consciousness that you are.

# The 3D is Just a Mirror

If you're feeling intense desire, need, or longing for someone—that's a state. And that state gets reflected back.

But here's where people get confused: they think "I love them so much, so they must love me too!" But if that love is coming from lack—"I need them, I'm incomplete without them"—that's the state being reflected.

And lack reflects more lack. Distance. Unavailability.

It's not about whether your strong feelings equal theirs. It's about what those feelings reveal about your state of consciousness.

# Consciousness is the Only Reality

This is Neville's first principle: Consciousness is the only reality.

Not two consciousnesses. One.

When you're operating from wholeness, from knowing yourself as the I AM—as pure awareness—there's no separation. There's no "me over here" seeking validation from "them over there."

There's just consciousness, expressing itself.

And when you're in that state—when you're not seeking, not lacking, not needing them to complete you—the 3D has to reflect that wholeness back.

Not because you made them feel something. But because there was never anyone separate from you to begin with.

# The Bottom Line

Your strong feelings don't automatically mean they have strong feelings for you—because that whole framework is based on duality.

What matters is the state those feelings are coming from.

If they're coming from lack, seeking, or incompleteness—the mirror shows you that. If they're coming from wholeness and knowing there's no separation—the mirror shows you that too.

There's no "them" to change. There's only consciousness, and what it's expressing through the illusion of form.

**xx**

We hear the phrase "walk by faith, not by sight" all the time, but what does it actually mean for us as conscious creators?

When we walk by sight, we are letting the physical 3D world dictate how we feel and what we believe is possible. But walking by faith means choosing to gently turn our focus inward and trusting the beautiful reality that our imagination sees, long before it appears in the physical mirror.

**Sometimes, you just have to take a leap of faith.**

I remember lying in bed recently, having this realization: *What if it really is just a leap of faith?*  What if we literally don't have to "do" anything to get our desires?  What if - we just... trusted? …Had Faith
 
It can feel a little scary at first to stop "trying" and to completely drop the effort. We are so used to the idea that manifestation has to be hard work or a struggle or a process. But when you hit that point of "Why not?", everything can change. You choose to surrender. 

Why not just trust that Source has your back? Why not trust that everything is already working out and coming toward you?

**Believing is seeing.**

For so much of our lives, we are taught that "seeing is believing"—that we need physical proof before we can relax. But the Law of Assumption asks us to gently flip that around.

When you take that leap of faith, you realize that having it within *is* the full manifestation. It is the only evidence you will ever need. There is no waiting for the 3D to reflect it, because you know it's already yours.  It is Done. 

I invite you to try this. What if, for the next 7 days, you just took a leap of faith?  What if, whenever something happens in your 3D, you simply said, *"I don't care. I trust that Source has my back and this is getting sorted out"*?  You removed your attention from it?

Can you have faith - just for 7 days?

Here's something worth really sitting with.

It's never about the actual circumstance — the text that didn't come, the bill that arrived, the silence, the rejection. None of that has any power in itself.

What actually matters is what you make it mean.

**The Circumstance Is Neutral**

Every single thing that shows up in your 3D is, at its core, neutral. It has no inherent meaning until you assign one. The moment you decide what something means, you've created an assumption. And assumptions harden into fact.

That's the Law of Assumption in action — not in your big visualisation sessions, but in those split-second moments where something happens and your mind immediately goes *"this means that."*

Your SP takes two days to reply. Neutral event.

But then you go: *"They're losing interest. This always happens. I'm too much."*

That's not a fact. That's a story. And now it's an assumption being fed into your reality.

**Attention = Your Creative Currency**

Think of your attention as life-force energy — and wherever you point it, you're giving life to that thing. Breathing it into existence. Feeding it.

When you fixate on a circumstance and keep turning it over in your mind, you're not just thinking about it. You're literally investing your creative power into it. You're making it *matter* — and matter it will, because that's how this works.

*Matters = turns into physical matter.*

That's not a metaphor. It's mechanics.

**The Meaning Makes the Manifestation**

Two people can experience the exact same event and walk away with completely different realities — because they assigned different meanings to it.

Person A sees their SP's silence and thinks: *They're pulling away.* Person B sees the same silence and thinks: *They're just busy. We're solid.*

Same 3D event. Two completely different assumptions being written into their reality.

Neither meaning is inherently true. But both will harden into fact depending on which one gets the attention.

**So What Do You Actually Do With This?**

Start noticing the meaning you assign in real time. Not to judge yourself for it — just to catch it.

When something happens, ask: *What am I making this mean? And is that the meaning I want to keep feeding?*

You're not trying to force positive spin onto things. You're recognising that the meaning was always a choice — and that you get to choose again.

Because at the end of the day.. YOU are the one making things "MATTER"

xx

Here's something worth sitting with.

Your reaction to the 3D is one of the most powerful creative acts you have — because every time you react emotionally to what you're seeing, you're feeding it your awareness. And whatever you feed your awareness becomes your reality.

What's Actually Happening When You React

Every time you react emotionally to what's in front of you — the silence, the bill, the circumstance that contradicts what you want — you're handing your creative power straight to the mirror.  You are still believing it's true - which means you are still identifying with it.    When we say "let the old man die" we mean it.   If that old man is dead, then it's not who you are anymore, so why are you reacting to it? (See my post Dying to the old self)

The 3D has zero creative power. It can't decide anything. It can't create anything. It's just a printout of your old identity. The echo of the old state you were in before.

Reacting to it doesn't change it. It just feeds it more of your awareness, which is the only thing that keeps it going.    You have STARVE IT off your attention.  Stop giving it life. 

The Version of You Who Already Has It Doesn't React the Same Way

The person who is already in the relationship, already has the money, already has the thing — they interpret the same events completely differently. Not because they're forcing positivity, but because their identity is different. The meaning they assign to things comes from a different place.  (See my post about - Why you should give everything good meaning)

When you react from the old identity, you're not just feeling bad in the moment — you're actively confirming who you are. You're being the version of you for whom this is still a problem.

Neville said it directly: "Do not waste one moment in regret, for to think feelingly of the mistakes of the past is to reinfect yourself. Let the dead bury the dead. Turn from appearances and assume the feeling that would be yours were you already the one you wish to be."

So What Do You Actually Do?

You pause.

When the 3D shows you something you don't want, you don't have to fight it, fix it, or spiritually gaslight yourself into pretending it's not there. You just stop before you react. (Be still and know you are god)  You observe it without feeding it.

And then you return to the new story.

Not because you've convinced yourself everything is fine. But because you understand that what you're looking at is old. It's already done. It belongs to the version of you, you're no longer choosing to be.

The more you practise that pause — the less automatic the old reaction becomes. And the faster the mirror has to catch up because you are no longer feeding the dead.

xx
K

Link to my Blog that contains all my posts - https://mentaldietmastery.com/blog/general

What if you just decided — right now, no logical reason required — to be completely, utterly spellbinding?

Not because you've figured out how. Not because you've earned it or worked up to it. Just because playing it safe is boring as f*ck, and you're done dimming your allure to make other people comfortable.

This is the Hypnotic Siren. And this session is her official unleashing.

This one is different from the rest of the Baddie Series — because this energy lives in the body, not the head. It's that deliciously juicy, magnetic, drop-into-your-hips kind of power that makes people turn their heads when you walk past without you saying a single word. The kind that has everyone in the room helplessly drawn into your orbit while you just stand there, completely aware of your own magic, enjoying every second of it.

Three rounds of gloriously over the top tapping take you from acknowledging the audacity of just claiming this energy out of nowhere, through releasing every rule that's been keeping your allure on a leash, and into the full embodied identity of someone who commands devotion effortlessly. Someone who walks out the door and owns it — completely, unapologetically, every single time.

Because the mirror reflects what you assume. And you're about to assume you're the most fascinating person in the entire room.

This is for you if: You're ready to stop overthinking and start feeling it in your body. You want to experiment with a level of magnetic, intoxicating energy you've never let yourself fully play with before. You love affirmations so over the top they make you laugh — and then make you feel like an actual siren anyway.

Part of The Baddie Series — bold, embellished, and never going anywhere near YouTube.

Link - https://mentaldietmastery.com/b/hypnoticsiren

Snippet here :

https://reddit.com/link/1t1ho2o/video/4aw68be30oyg1/player

I did a video yesterday in my Facebook Group - celebrating my One year annivesary of my Surgery and I wanted to give back to my community that was there for me and supported me through.. I announced a competition with several prizes in the video, it will be going for thenext few weeks.

For details, you will need to go across to my Facebook Group and watch the Video there.

Here is the link - https://www.facebook.com/groups/mentaldietmastery

Cheers K!

Based on Neville Goddard’s teachings in The Law and The Promise, and Awakened Imagination, you can determine if you have successfully revised a memory by observing specific shifts in your internal feelings, your memory's texture, and eventually, your external reality.

Here are the key indicators that revision has been successful:

1. The Emotional "Sting" Is Gone

The most immediate sign is a distinct change in how you feel when you recall the event.

• Dissolution of Pain: If the memory was traumatic or induced guilt, successful revision dissolves that negative emotion. 
• Dream-Like Quality: The old, factual memory begins to feel distant, "like a dream or hazy," while the revised version feels like the real reality. As Neville writes about a woman who revised a rejection: "What she held to be so stubbornly real was no longer so to her and, like a dream, had quietly faded away"
• Neutrality: You know you have succeeded when you can think of the person or event with total indifference or even fondness, rather than resentment. If you still feel the "sting" or anger, the revision is not yet complete.

2. The "Tones of Reality" Are Present

Revision is not just intellectual affirmation; it is an experience. You know it is done when the new imagined scene feels solid and real to you.

• Sensory Vividness: You have repeated the revised scene over and over until it took on the "tones of reality". For example, a woman curing back pain revised a childhood fall by imagining she landed on her feet. She did this until she could actually feel the wind and the solid landing in her imagination.
• Displacement: The revised scene crowds out the old one. When you try to recall the event, the revised version comes up first or feels more natural than the original facts.

3. "Revision Results in Repeal" (External Confirmation)

Neville teaches that revision literally changes the past, which then changes the present consequences of that past. He states, "Revision results in repeal"
.

• Physical Healing: In the case of the woman with back pain, the success of her revision was confirmed when, within two days, a pain she had suffered for 39 years completely disappeared.
• Change in Others' Behavior: You know it worked when the people involved change their behavior toward you to match your revision. For example, a woman revised a letter from a friend that was critical. Upon rereading the physical letter later, she actually saw the words she had imagined, and her friend’s attitude shifted to match the revision.
• Resolution of Problems: In another instance, a man revised a situation with bad tenants. The revision was successful when the tenants quietly moved out and the situation resolved itself without the conflict that seemed inevitable.

4. True Forgiveness (The Amnesia of the Heart)

Neville equates revision with true forgiveness.

• The Test: "If I do not forget then I have not forgiven". This does not necessarily mean literal amnesia, but rather that the emotional cause of the grievance has been eradicated. If you can look at the person or event and feel no condemnation, you have successfully revised.
• Replacement: You have replaced the "old man" (the victim of the experience) with the "new man" (who experienced the desired outcome).

Summary Checklist:

• Does the old memory feel fading, shadowy, or distant?
• Has the guilt, shame, or anger evaporated?
• Does the new version feel natural or does it come up automatically first?
• Are the physical consequences (pain, conflict, lack) beginning to vanish?

If you can answer yes to these, you have successfully revised.

Peace out

X K

( I introduced this in the Revise your Breakup EFT Video yesterday. )

Nobody tells you how to actually move through a breakup. You know you need to move forward. But knowing and actually feeling it are two completely different things — and that gap is exactly where people get stuck for months, sometimes years.

The grief. The self-blame. The replaying of every conversation. The checking their socials at 2am. The obsessive what-ifs that won't quit. That's not weakness. That's what happens when emotion gets stuck in the body with nowhere to go.

I built the Breakup Recovery Kit for exactly this.

It's a complete EFT tapping system — 4 sessions + a bonus session + workbook — using Emotional Freedom Techniques combined with Neville Goddard's Law of Assumption.

Each session works directly with your nervous system to release what's stuck, clear the old story, and rebuild the sense of self that the breakup temporarily buried.

The five sessions cover:
➤ Moving the pain through your body
➤ Releasing the guilt and self-blame
➤ Rebuilding your self-concept from the inside out
➤ Opening back to love without the fear
➤ Breaking the obsessive thought loops — for the 3am spirals

This isn't about white-knuckling your way through it. It's about actually feeling better.

The full kit is $47. The Intro Price is $37 for the next two weeks

If you're in it right now, this was made for you.

Link in Comments

Every single time you claim "it is done" in the morning and then spiral the moment your phone shows nothing... you are serving two masters at once.

And that's the whole problem.

What "double-minded" actually means

In the Law of Assumption, your "master" is simply the state of consciousness you're currently occupying. And you cannot occupy two states at once.

You cannot be the person who has the desire and the person who is waiting for the desire at the exact same time.

Double-mindedness looks like this: you do your morning routine, step into your new identity, feel solid... and then the 3D shows you something you don't like. No text from your SP. A bank balance that doesn't match your new story. And just like that — you're back in the old state, reacting from the old identity as if nothing ever shifted.

Neville put it plainly: "You cannot put new wine into old bottles." You cannot drag any part of the old identity into your new state of being. It doesn't fit there.

The rule that changes everything

Here's the core principle: the dominant of two feelings is the one expressed.

If you spend 10 minutes a day affirming your new reality, but the other 23 hours and 50 minutes are spent reacting to the 3D from lack — your dominant state is still lack. That's the master you're actually serving, regardless of what you affirmed this morning.

The 3D mirror is always showing you old data. It's reflecting past assumptions, not your current ones. So when you react to it as if it's telling you the truth about your present reality, you're handing your creative power straight back to something that has none.

Serving one master

The fix is simpler than it sounds, even if it takes practice.

Make a firm decision about who you are being right now. Then stay there — not by white-knuckling it, but by becoming genuinely indifferent to what the mirror is currently showing you.

The 3D is just catching up. It always is. Your job is to stop abandoning your new identity every time the old reflection pops up.

Drop the old story completely. Return to your new state as often as needed. That consistent return — that's what "serving one master" actually looks like in practice.

The dominant state wins. Make sure it's the right one.

xx

Related Posts :
Dying to the Old Self - Let the Old Man Die

Here's something worth really sitting with.

It's never about the actual circumstance — the text that didn't come, the bill that arrived, the silence, the rejection. None of that has any power in itself.

What actually matters is what you make it mean.

The Circumstance Is Neutral

Every single thing that shows up in your 3D is, at its core, neutral. It has no inherent meaning until you assign one. The moment you decide what something means, you've created an assumption. And assumptions harden into fact.

That's the Law of Assumption in action — not in your big visualisation sessions, but in those split-second moments where something happens and your mind immediately goes "this means that."

Your SP takes two days to reply. Neutral event.

But then you go: "They're losing interest. This always happens. I'm too much."

That's not a fact. That's a story. And now it's an assumption being fed into your reality.

Attention = Your Creative Currency

Think of your attention as life-force energy — and wherever you point it, you're giving life to that thing. Breathing it into existence. Feeding it.

When you fixate on a circumstance and keep turning it over in your mind, you're not just thinking about it. You're literally investing your creative power into it. You're making it matter — and matter it will, because that's how this works.

Matters = turns into physical matter.

That's not a metaphor. It's mechanics.

The Meaning Makes the Manifestation

Two people can experience the exact same event and walk away with completely different realities — because they assigned different meanings to it.

Person A sees their SP's silence and thinks: They're pulling away. Person B sees the same silence and thinks: They're just busy. We're solid.

Same 3D event. Two completely different assumptions being written into their reality.

Neither meaning is inherently true. But both will harden into fact depending on which one gets the attention.

So What Do You Actually Do With This?

Start noticing the meaning you assign in real time. Not to judge yourself for it — just to catch it.

When something happens, ask: What am I making this mean? And is that the meaning I want to keep feeding?

You're not trying to force positive spin onto things. You're recognising that the meaning was always a choice — and that you get to choose again.

Because at the end of the day.. YOU are the one making things "MATTER"

xx