u/grammaPP

We are looking for a place that is a happy medium. We normally look for laid back areas when we go to Caribbean islands, but we have a traveler with us this time who prefers nightlife and bars. On what part of the island should we aim to stay? Maybe I am thinking SMB is going to be too crazy when in fact it is not. Can you give me a comparison? Like, SMB is like Ocean City NJ when it comes to crowds and things to do. This is an adult only vacation. I was kind of hoping Rum Point might be a good compromise. Your thoughts?