this is his chart. our synastry isn’t horrible, isn’t amazing. we have a few things we can and have been working through. however, i am curious if he is as honest as he seems. also, he has shown subtle signs of possessiveness and possibly being controlling. it kinda makes me nervous to become exclusive with him.
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This is my 2nd time being rejected for SSI. I’m in Connecticut. I requested a hearing, but I don’t have a lawyer, it’s just me. I’ve been trying to contact lawyers for months but no one responds or is willing to take my case.
Is there any hope at all for representing myself? Also, does anyone have advice on the hearing? What to mention to the judge, proofs I should have ready, etc. Thanks everyone.
I’ve only ever had situationships and nothing long term. I am curious as to what my ‘perfect’ partner would be, even if just for fun. But it would also be good to look out for in future dating/relationships. What placements would you place me with for a harmonious long term marriage/union with a man?
He is blue, I am orange
For context: I met this man through Substack recently. We started messaging on March 1st and we haven’t skipped a day since. Things progressed fairly quickly, but not intensely (no lovebombing, idealizing, etc.) If things continue to go well, I plan on visiting him at the end of August, since we are long distance. The only ‘issue’ we’ve had is that his communication can be a bit harsh and I can be quite sensitive, but once I raised the issue he has put in effort to work on his communication style, and he’s been doing great with it ever since.
We are completely opposite, yet exactly the same. We have barely any similar interests, but our conversations last for hours. On the phone, it feels like we are right there with each other despite the distance. We often are feeling and thinking the same things at the same times. He feels steady, calm, and like home. No obsessions or anything like that. We are best friends. Nothing he or I have ever experienced before. (Despite being 26, neither of us have been in a relationship, or even spoken to someone in a romantic context for this long) However, sometimes I wonder if we are TOO similar, and I wonder if the connection will get boring because of that, although so far we haven’t had that issue and we seem to challenge each other in a healthy manner. I can also be quite avoidant but I’m trying to face my fears, and so far he has given me no reason to run away, and he feels the same way about me.
Now, I know it seems early to be thinking of marriage, but it’s something we both want and we wouldn’t be talking to each other if we didn’t have that same goal in mind. So my question is, does this seem like a long term connection that can turn into marriage and starting a family? It’s funny because on paper it doesn’t really look like we are all that compatible, and it’s even surprising me how well it’s working out. I’d just like to know if there are any extreme red flags that are sticking out to anyone.