Would anyone mind sharing their experience, positive or negative with having this biopsy?
Would you also mind mentioning if you had children and whether you are post meno- or not?
I’ve read that having at least one child makes this biopsy less painful,but not sure if it’s true.
.. I lost my family completely and I did nothing, absolutely nothing except not attend the Golden Child’s wedding due to fear of flying.My mother and my younger sister ,”The Golden Child “embarked on a campaign to turn the whole family against me since I dared to upset her so much.
Over the years my other sister, sister in law, a cousin and finally a once neutral aunt, all stopped talking to me.
My mother spread lies that I need ‘mental help’ due to my fear of flying, which, ironically,never bothered them before when it didn’t affect them directly, plus other lies too long to list.
Now I’m going through a health issue and I have no sisters or cousins or even a mom to talk to or to get support or advice.
All because I pissed off the narc golden child and my enabling mother who never liked me and chose to side with her against me.
My sister was literally so angry ,telling me my fear of flying is bullshit and that she ‘can’t count on me for anything ever again if I don’t attend’ . Up until this point I never upset her, never had a fight , never told her no. Her reaction was over the top and aggressive.
The only way to have my ‘family’ back is if I just accept everything they said and did ( and I left a lot unsaid) and put my boundaries and self respect to the side. No one has apologized or showed any compassion.
It’s a shame and makes me so,so sad that mob mentality is a real thing. I guess I was just expendable to everyone.