Am I in the wrong for texting an older woman after she made my boyfriend uncomfortable at work?
I’m 18F and my boyfriend is 19M. A few weeks ago, an older woman (probably late 40s/early 50s) came into his job. He works on cars, so she got his number for work-related reasons. What bothered me was how she acted toward him. She kept grabbing his arm while laughing and even put money in his pocket. My boyfriend said it made him really uncomfortable.
I’ve dealt with situations in the past where people crossed boundaries and nobody really stood up for me, so I’m not someone who just stays quiet when something feels off. I ended up texting her because I felt like boundaries needed to be set. Looking back, maybe messaging her directly wasn’t the best move, but I was upset and protective of my relationship.
Now I’m wondering if I overreacted or if my feelings were valid. Am I in the wrong?