Need help with new baby
My husband and I are expecting our first child this fall. My in laws live with my elder BIL/SIL and their 3 kids about 10-15 minutes away. We bought our house at this distance thinking that we will be able to pick up and drop off our baby after we both go back to work. However, in laws are now asking when they can move in.. they've mentioned to my husband that I need to compromise if I want help.
Idk what to do, I don't want to live with them and I think it'll ruin my peaceful life! We're very happily married and enjoy living alone as we have done for the last 4-5 years. We have a hefty mortgage and ideally we need both our incomes but I don't understand why we need 4 adults living in one house for one baby. I will have to take care of my baby after work anyways whether they live here or I pick the baby up.
Husband feels like he'll upset his parents if he says no and I'm really struggling with the idea of them moving in. What can we do without rocking the boat too much?