Broke up quickly
I M26 had been chatting and meeting up with a girl F22 for a while, before actively trying to date her. I had after judging we were quite good together asked her out formally, to which she said she was surprised as we had been sharing some beautiful time together, but it had never seemed to be romantic or intimate. I agree I too were confused about what ai wanted from her initially and afterwards was a bit too formal and event frightened to mess things up. After some time she, after a long interview agreed, and was even quite enthusiastic about it, even going so far as to give me tips about what to improve, namely to be more intimate and open with her. Of course after meeting up once officialy and once in a spur of the moment kind of thing, she called me over and broke up with me saying: "I really enjoyed spending time with you, you are the most charming and thoughtful man I ever met, but looking but we never had that spark." Of course she had that melancholic look to her and even doubted herself here and there, and I have met her since as a surprise for her and she did experience a pleasant shock, but insofar it looks like there really is nothing more to it. We have not been intimate in anyway shape or form, much to my dismay, as it seems that therin lies the problem. And we are to meet and spend some time together unrelated to our prior relationship, which I would like to try and use to probe any chances at potentially rekindling our relationship if at all possible.
I would like to know if there were spots I could improve or how one would go about rekindling such a relationship. For I would be rather upset if that were to be the case as in my eyes she was truly a great match, with her admitting to it as well.