I have a coworker been friend for years lately seems like more. With the weather changing she always wears dresses..every time she come in and chat she sits in chair facing me and always fixes her dress... but I feel like she does this to see if I look and get my reaction.
Me (M41) co worker (F37). We work closely together for 3 all together 9 in the company. We go to lunch here and there and sometimes hangout together at work functions. We are very flirty and think we are at an emotional affair state. We did not plan this just happened over time. I know its not appropriate do to our status. But she is all I care about as me and my wife are on our last straw. Awhile ago She said we should both take a day off work and go hangout. I really wanna do this but im confused