u/depressedgrey6

Basic background.

- night class (Tuesdays & Thursdays from 6-7:15pm), and yes this is the same guest lecturer I complained about before.

This man wants to meet at our class time next Tuesday and Thursday despite the fact he knows it's finals weeks (one day for a presentation and one for the quiz). We will be discussing timing tonight but there's no way in hell this is allowed. I understand night classes don't have allotted times but twice??

Basic backstory

• 20 year who is about to graduate from college. Post-grad plans are either grad school (at the same university), or I'm trying to see if I can get a job at a neighboring college in the same city, and I should have a place from August to May (should as in I've met the people I want to move in with, nothing has been finalized).
  • Also, the university I go to is in the same city where my parents live; they live 30 minutes away, and I currently live in a dorm.
• Mother lost her shit a few months ago, and I blocked her on everything and haven't returned home since, and if you couldn't guess, haven't spoken to her since.

So, here's the actual situation.

I will be moving back to my parents' house from May till the end of July, and honestly, I'm quite nervous because I haven't spoken to my mother since her big blow-up. She did send me an "apology" for her actions, but it was more her trying to gaslight me into thinking I was just being sensitive; needless to say, I sent a strongly worded email back. So my question is, how have y'all dealt with this? The people I potentially will be moving in with said I could move in as early as June, but the reason why I'm hesitant to move in that early is a.) I really miss my dog. I also miss my house, and I miss my co-workers. b.) If I can't get the job and do grad school the Chipotle I work at is near my parents' house, and it would be more of an inconvenience to drive back and forth all the time.

Am I crazy for not taking the earlier move-in date? Part of me knows that would be the best option, but my heart is saying otherwise (not to sound all poetic). I also feel like I've been able to really process everything she's done to me, and I've gotten to the point where her words and actions don't mean anything anymore, mostly because I've been able to see a life where she's really not in it, and it's been so much better, but any advice would be appreciated!!