u/deejayonid

Trying to find two movies

First movie:
I remember watching it mid 90s. It was a horror/thriller movie. Character falls into a pool and the pool cover closes above him/her trapping them in. There is a tentacle-like creature in the pool, and its appearance has a black and white alternating pattern. The pattern is similar to the cartoon character, Oblina, from the Nickelodeon show, Aaahh Real Monsters.

Second Movie:
Watched on Netflix stream around the 2015s; give or take a few years. I don’t recall if it was a foreign film or not. Premise is a lonely, middle-aged white male. Chubby and unattractive looking. Possibly racist in the beginning. The character eats at an Asian restaurant and befriends the owner/cook. One thing leads to another and character marries the owner/cook’s sister or daughter in exchange for immigration status. I can’t remember how the rest of the story goes, but I believe there are some troubles between the newlyweds at first, but they end up falling in love. The main character reminds me of the actor, Brendan Gleeson, but I checked his IMDb history and could not find a match.

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u/deejayonid — 3 days ago

My son recently started saying he wants to become a professional basketball player.

He just turned 11 and is 5’11”. He’s been playing basketball for the past four years. Started in YMCA, then to a local youth rec league that is somewhat competitive. And just recently joined a club team that focuses on development and plays competitive basketball tournaments on the weekend. Sometimes, even playing against 13u teams.

He’s been getting a lot of attention due to his size and coaches/parents keep telling us we need to do this or that. I’ve taken a hands off approach with my son’s basketball “career” up till now, but it seems like I should start being more active about it.

Am I doing right by him currently? Or is there something more I should do to give him more exposure?

I keep seeing reels saying Club/AAU is ruining basketball. So, that also weighs on my mind.

Would love to get feedback on things I should focus on now and things to take note of for the future.

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u/deejayonid — 7 days ago