u/darnal15

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I have a strange Duality in me. Could you explain, I don't rely on AI's information?

Case -1

I follow Stoicism (since 2007) --> 'Amor Fati' -(Love your fate) Meaning nomatter how good or bad things are that's what destiny has for us. Meditations by M. Aurelius has inspired me from inside out.

Reversal- I'm quite rebellious guy. I've verbally fought with previous manager because they pissed me off. If a rule doesn't make sense to me logically I tend to break them. I simply find it hard to accept what fate has written for me, I forge my own path.

Case - 2

I want to do something great for my country, Ive forged my destiny around optimizing a system within our country, considering all parameters and variables, that could reform its architecture from the foundation.

Reversal- F this country and the people. Let war and climate change obliterate everything.

Hard to balance the two.

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u/darnal15 — 4 hours ago
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I find people who choose partner based on MBTI absolutely stupid. Thoughts?

On an average how stupid do you think it is? Personally Ive seen so many posts on MBTI pages (not much in our sub) about people saying I want my partner X type and Im not compatible with Y type. For a test as surface level as MBTI I think these people are giving this way too much meaning than it actually has. I would never choose a partner based on MBTI, like now she suddenly has these cog funcs in her stack so she's an ideal partner, it does not make any sense to me.

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u/darnal15 — 1 day ago