Help
my husband is finishing his 5th year of medical residency and I’m completely burnt out as the spouse. His mood is constantly determined by the feedback he gets at work and it’s exhausting living on eggshells about how is he going to act today. We have 2 daughters and I’m 8 months pregnant. Hes not a very appreciative person and if anything he tells me I’m not supportive enough which is wild. I’m not going to get into the details of all that I do but there’s no way to objectively say I don’t go above and beyhond for my family. He has his final exam in 3 weeks and he is really stressed and short with me and my daughters. We have to move a few weeks after I deliver for his upcoming fellowship, and we also need to rent out our house. There’s people coming to view our house tomorrow and he just left to study and basically said he can’t help me clean or get the house ready because he’s too busy studying. I just don’t know how to see the light at the end of the tunnel or if there really is one. I know I hear residency is hard but how can I believe he won’t still be like this when he’s done. If anyone has any reassurance it will get better please share.