6 months after, i still need support
My ex broke up with me the day i finished rn school. Ive posted here multiple times, and everyone said it would take time to overcome the heartbreak. Its 6 months, i found a job after a lot of rejections. Im coparenting and filed for custody and child support thats coming up. But every month old wounds keep reopening. Right now, i finally found out from him that hes living with his affair partner now. He took a trip with her to Japan in February and when he broke up with me he said he just needed a break and hoped that this would bring him back to his family because he didnt know what he wanted. We were together 7 years and idk how someone just leaves, lies, and starts over. I trusted him so much, i would have never expected this betrayal. I feel like God is punishing me. My oldest isnt his child, she chose not to have a relationship with him anymore, he was with me since she was 6 but she told me that she didn't feel happy seeing him anymore after finding out he left us for another person. Im sad of course, but most of all, im sad about my little girl who still sees him and is now going to be introduced to a new partner. Him and i have a 3 year old together. How did you all grieve this? Today im having such a hard day being away from her and knowing that this will be a new norm for her, two families. I just want to know that she will be okay, any advice navigating this would be so helpful.