u/chizeucake

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Why do I get annoyed whenever my Mom messages me?

I usually get annoyed whenever my Mom messages me. It can be as simple as asking me how I’m doing of what I am doing but I get super frustrated whenever I need to reply to her. I thought maybe I’ve gotten so used to being away (since I’m away for college) from her. I always find my mood being so sour whenever I see her message pops a notification on my phone. Sometimes I think I’m being irrational but I don’t know… Her presence just annoys the hell out of me but then I cannot not be there for her cos we only got the two of us. My sister died and my mom & dad are annulled. Most of the time I despise going home just because I know I’ll get annoyed with her after a few days.

Can someone help me understand why I feel this way? Is it because I’ve held so many grudges over the years? I think I need some therapy LOL!

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u/chizeucake — 8 hours ago