u/carmysan

So i started speaking to this guy in Jan. He is super sweet, texts me everyday, asks how my day is and when we meet, its really nice! I haven't really been putting effort into this yet as in Feb all he said was he wants to go with the flow and I do find myself not responding to him (because I feel like 5 months is enough for him to move things forward) and he often texts me or sends me reels to get me to respond

He did wait a few months before trying to take things physical, however now its like every night he'll send suggestive texts or like he'll say come warm me up and the reason im debating being intimate with him is because im not sure if thats all he wants or not and even if I had to ask him he'd probably say 'No, Im just going with the flow' Like he even said hes going to buy a heater and stuff so I can come over at his house and now I feel pressured

But maybe he is genuine or maybe he isnt... and mind you we were in a 4 year situationship but im not gonna count that as we decided to restart all of this in the 5 months we started talking again