Anyone else experiencing this?
Does anyone elses husband seem perpetually annoyed at them? I genuinely feel like any sign of emotion I have that isn't happiness, or any feeling/reaction that isn't positive annoys my husband. We have two kids, 3.5YO, and an almost 1YO. We are lucky to live an extremely comfortable life. We are in our early to mid 30s.
I recently had a miscarriage in January and that triggred some anxiety that I've never experienced before. He is a good dad, but I honestly feel like him telling me he does not want to be around me unless I am happy is pretty shitty. I get it, women can be a lot with their mood swings, hormones, cycles, emotions, "nagging"..... blablabla - but how can I always be happy and unaffected by things in life? Sometimes I may get stressed about the babys naps, or the kids being sick and I'm always such a buzzkill according to him. Sometimes I get a wave of sadness over my most recent miscarriage, sometimes I get anxious about my health and all of that is irritating or appears to be a drag. Is this normal? Is this how men really feel but don't say it publicly?
These examples are just scratching at the surface.