u/bowlonshelve

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I (f,24y) am not attracted to my boyfriend anymore(21y)

I think the title says it, I don’t feel sexually attracted to my boyfriend anymore. We’re only together for 8months. I think he’s cute, pretty, his body is amazing, but he can’t trigger my sex drive anymore.

My sex drive is still here, whenever I’m alone I get horny, it just disappears when we’re together.

So I don’t get it.

I was thinking when this flipped, and there was a moment he kept a secret from me what shouldn’t have been a secret. He told me he would never hide that kind of stuff and he did. In my previous relationship something similar happened and it also was a turning point to not be attracted to him anymore.

Had someone experience with this? We totally figured the argument out, but still, no attraction, could this be ‘revived’?

TL;DR not attracted to boyfriend , I don’t know why, maybe because he lied about something. We’re over the issue but i’m still not attracted to him sexually even though he’s handsome.

Fixable?

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u/bowlonshelve — 2 days ago