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My best friend/ex (D, 61M) and I (L, 41F) dated for almost 3 years, before dating we were friends and after the split we both promised to remain best friends no matter what, would never let anything or anyone get in the way of that. We had a great friendship, we knew a lot about each other, could trust each other and tell each other anything. Plus he gave me the best advice. Things were good, until he began dating his current partner (S, 49/F). She refused to let him hang out with, talk to, or even text me anymore. She destroyed our friendship for no reason, there were no romantic feelings between us, everything was completely platonic. This devastated me. I lost my only real friend, my best friend, the one person who I could trust.

We tried to sneak to talk, but that caused serious issues with their relationship so, we had to stop talking completely. I haven’t talked or seen D in 9 months and I have been having been going through some tough times and the one person that I know could listen to me and talk me through it all, I can’t talk to. It is so hard not to have my best friend to talk to.

My questions are, will D and I ever be able to talk again and have the ability to be friends again? And does he miss talking to me too?

Suggestions needed. I’m looking for songs that would annoy, irritate and keep our nosey, PITA, and homophobic (and proud of it), Karen neighbor in her house and out of the neighborhood’s business. Any genre. (There’s no HOA or noise ordinance here FYI, just so y’all know) Try not to get too harsh with verbiage, there are children in our neighborhood.

Let’s see what ya got!

Context: I’m currently in the market for a used car or truck here in Kentucky, and have been searching FB Marketplace for the past few months. I’m getting frustrated with all the posts that come up in my searches. I’m only looking at Dodge Rams/Chargers or Ford Mustangs/F-150s, price point no more than $1,500.

I’m fed up with the fact that people can’t seem to find the ability to actually put the price point they’re asking on the post anywhere. I’m sorry but FREE, $1,234, $1,111, $1 and so on is just not cutting it. I get that they want to trade more than they want to sell, but people still want to have an idea of how much they could offer to potentially purchase the vehicle from them. And then there’s the description of the vehicle, is it so hard to write down what is good about the vehicle and what needs work, instead of just saying it will get you where you need to go, or may need some work, or just plain leave out why the vehicle is missing half its front end? Lastly, why do they post these vehicles that they want to sell, but they never answer a single message from someone who is seriously interested in buying?

It’s crazy, I have sent so many messages to sellers in the last couple of months and have had maybe two responses.

Sorry, rant over. Just needed to get that out.

I hope this is allowed here.

I am planning on buying a vehicle within the next month and I really want to get a Charger. I had a 2022 a year back, but that story is for another subreddit, and I really want to get back into another one. Obviously another 2022 is not in the cards, so I am looking for one in the 2006-2012 range. I’m noticing as I am reading the context of the vehicle descriptions that a lot of them have transmission and engine problems, as well as blowing head gaskets.

I’m just wondering if this is a common mechanical problem or something caused by human error? I really loved my Charger and my Hemi, and want one so badly again, just want to see what anyone knows about the older models compared to the newer ones. Also what I should look out for when going to purchase the vehicle? Any advice or information would be greatly appreciated!

Thank you!

Like I said, I hope this post is allowed here, just looking for some input from those whom own this model of vehicle.