Can this marriage survive ?
To give you all a heads up, I'm 32M turning 33 in a few months. My wife is 30 yr old. It's been exactly one year since we got married and have been having problems right from the beginning.
About myself: I hail from an upper middle class family.Right from childhood, I'm used to living a certain standard of living and we could afford things although we had a simple living. The thing is I'm an emotional person and takes things literally, an introvert, never a fun person who other kids like to hang around. Already I had self esteem issues but I got bullied during my 11th and 12th grade (after SSC exams) which took an emotional toll and I fared very badly in exams. I further went into a shell and hardly had 1-2 friends during my engineering. Although in my mind, I thought highly of myself for my General Knowledge, Geopolitics, Politics etc knowledge. I couldn't find people with similar interests and people who could acknowledge me. So I thought to myself I belong nowhere. One thing led to another, I got involved in p*rn addiction, m*sturbation and totally lost grip on my life. I was just going with the flow.
Currently I work in Govt Job and got married last year to my wife. My marriage has been on a rocky boat. She is someone who is not matured I feel. Although she works in a private job in my town which doesn't pay much around 18k maybe. Still she expects me to pay for her clothing shopping. i buy for her sandals and shoes. she almost bought 3 in a year. Also, I had a spat with her mom regarding my wife not doing enough to keep house clean (keeping chairs, table, windows, toilet and bathroom clean). We have a maid who brooms and mops everyday. But her mother didn't say a single thing to her daughter. Instead ridiculed and mocked me for expecting her daughter to do it. Also my wife never made efforts to get along with my mom. They hardly talk to each other. I feel like she gives more importance to her family, and puts them on pedestral and even they take her side. There are some ugly things said by my mom to my wife. But it was in frustration because my wife has a habit of sensationalising and making things up.
Kindly advice what should I do ?