u/beyoncesgroove

The fandom at large dislikes Bonnie in season 1 & 2 and honestly I thought those were some of her “better” writing bc she got to have an opinions, set boundaries and walk away even because after that Bonnie becomes doormat and has to constantly give and give for a friend group that NEVER does anything for her. She loses her life, her family all at her own determinant bc look somebody (usually Elena) needs saving! Bonnie’s the only one with magic so she just has to be on the offense line!

I just wish she did worse. Bonnie had to be the.. “mammy” of her friend group and honestly it got her nothing. I wish my girl lashed out, I wish she cut them off. I WISH SHE DID 10000 worse than the fandom pretend season 1 & 2 is. Bonnie didn’t get better friendships, she didn’t get better relationships… she should’ve did worse lmao

All that servitude and when was her friends ever helpful? When did her friends try to have sleepover bc something got too hard? How often do they check in on her?

For example if it was anybody else stuck in the prison world the group would’ve tried getting them out. Instead Bonnie was there nearly a year alone, when Caroline got kidnapped she got a night of support, when Caroline lost her mom another night of support. When Elena’s going through something she has her bfs or her brother to lean on. Matt even had more support.

Bonnie got nothing out of being a good person and should’ve gave the world hell

The fandom would’ve found a million reasons to explain why Bonnie couldn’t be with said villain. I see it all the time in this fandom people start mentioning how good she is, how she doesn’t deserve a guy that would go on murder sprees, how it isn’t like her to date someone like that and yet it wasn’t like that at first for Elena and Caroline but that never stopped them either.

Edit: since people need it spelled out for them. I wasn’t referring to Enzo, yes he’s bad but that wasn’t even done with Bonnie’s best interest in minds

Damon/Klaus/Kol/Kai/Elijah etc etc aka fandom favorite males

Now I don’t agree with how Damon treated Caroline whatsoever. Caroline had a right to feel the way she did towards Damon and Elena’s relationship. However, when you remind some fans in discussion that Caroline treated Tyler the same way Elena treated her suddenly Tyler deserved said abuse? Which isn’t fair either.

Elena and Caroline are two sides of the same coin. Both sleep with someone’s abuser. The only difference is Caroline said she felt bad about (though I don’t think so)

I’ve never played with custom hoods in sims 2 and now that I’m back into the game I wanted to try it out! What’s your fave hood, downtown even… or even recommend your own builds! I have a storyline I wanted to try out loosely inspired by an old 2000s show 😂

Forgive me if I’m remembering incorrectly on when Don & Cassandra’s relationship started before or after Bella’s disappearance (I think it’s after) but just like the header says why do you think Bella went to see Don?

While I do think Bella’s feelings for Morty was genuine I love how in the PSP game Bella confesses she never loved him. It’s just very interesting to consider when Bella saw Don that night