My best friend (F14) thinks I'm (F14) rude and inconsiderate for disliking PDA?
super sorry in advance for any mistakes in my writing, this is one of my first posts on reddit so i hope i'm being respectful
recently, my classmate (used to be close but we drifted apart with time) got together with a guy in our class. i never particularly cared much about them or their relationship aside from being shocked, as it was an unexpected pair.
earlier today, i was hanging out with my friend group and my best friend, vania during lunch break. vania was on her phone when she showed me the instagram story of my classmate kissing the guy, on the lips.
i was shocked and freaked out by it. i really dont know why i was, it just seems wrong to me, but the best i can come up with is that it's because we're still only kids and i feel like we're not mature enough for that kind of stuff, i never grew up around pda, and that my classmate had a history of saying racist and xenophobic things about my country (i dont live in my country at the time of writing this), so i automatically just stopped tolerating her.
i reacted with a simple "ew, okay, i dont really care." and moved on, continued talking to my other friends, who didn't pay attention to our conversation.
then, vania said something along the lines of "why are you so gloomy? why can't you just be happy for people?"
to that i replied that "it's because i don't give a damn about other people," and she called me "rude and inconsiderate". she ignored me the entire day after that exchange and im pretty sure she will continue to ignore me for a while.
vania had been acting distant and quiet for the past few weeks, im not sure why, and has a repeated history of shit talking me, spreading lies about me, and just doing stuff to our entire friend group that has just been, to me at least, mean.
ive got mixed responses from my friends when i asked them what they thought about it, so i dont know how to approach this. was vania right about me? if she is how can i be better?