AIO my boyfriend of 10 years doesn’t come to bed with me.
So my bf (36) and I (41) have been together for 10 years and recently bought a home together in November. He has started to game pretty much every night and on the weekends he tends to stay up super late and falls asleep on the sofa and doesn’t come to bed at all. This follows on to him sleeping in most mornings while I keep myself occupied waiting for him to wake up. I’d like to add that we have no children.
I keep bringing up the fact that this is ruining our relationship but he doesn’t seem to get it. He says to stop nagging him and that we get our ‘time’ together watching telly or hanging out before he starts gaming but it’s really starting to piss me off. I feel like we are roommates at this point but how do I get through to him that this is affecting our relationship? Am I overreacting? I’d love to hear your thoughts and opinions on this.