Indonesian queer gf
I’m a woman from Russia living full-time in Bali for almost 2 years.
Before this, I dated another Russian woman and one of my favourite ways to show affection was lifting her in bridal carry during private romantic moments. I’m quite fit, so it felt natural and loving to me.
Now I’ve been dating an amazing Indonesian woman for three months. Everything is great, but whenever I try to pick her up bridal-style (even for a few seconds), she seems tense or a little scared, like she’s not used to it.
I really want to understand the cultural difference and be a better partner.
So I’m asking: Among Indonesian queer couples, is bridal carry or lifting your girlfriend in romantic private moments common at all?
Have any of you ever done it or experienced it? And how did it feel?
I’d appreciate any honest thoughts, no judgment, just trying to learn. Thank you so much!