Gender reveal with a bit disrespect
My fiancé and I had our gender reveal yesterday, everything was great but you know my mother in law just had to add her disrespect from the start of the party… my fiance and I have been together for 7 years and our parents never had a dinner together, conversation, nothing but have seen each around my fiance and I we on a sports team in our teens. So my fiancé wanted his parents to reintroduced themselves basically since it’s been a while and they never really met my dad just my mom, his dad was happy to do but not my mother in law she straight up was in front of my parents and said loudly “I know who they and they’re not sociable” and my fiancé and I were in shock but my parents just ignored it because why would they want to cause scene. And then it goes down hill from there, every time one of my family members would get up and grab something, she would stare at them with disgust. She took pics with all her friends, I mean you would think she would want a take a pic with her son but nope not really.
It was time for the reveal and she didn’t look happy one bit, lucky I didn’t hear what she said, I heard it from a friend that when we reveal that it was a girl, she said “ugh expensive one” all because she wanted a boy but I just knew it was all jealousy because she always wanted a girl after 2 boys. She told me from the start of my pregnancy that it was a boy and she knows it, Sadly to her it wasn’t nothing I can do.
After all that’s she was with her friends only, we were packing up everything and she was packing their own stuff once they finish she surprisingly went up to my parents to say bye but obviously with stupid comment of “ughhh now we’re have to share the grandchild”
Overall, I felt bad for my fiance because even though I knew it was going to be a shit show, I wanted to have the one thing he asked out this whole pregnancy which was a gender reveal. It hurt to see his almost cry on the way home because how shitty his mom is.. but I think we both agreed that we slowly going to go no contact which sucks because I would’ve wanted our child to have both grandparents in her life but we’re tired of trying to be nice and giving her the benefit of the doubt.
To end this little story time… sadly she was tipsy but like people say “drunk moments have sober thoughts” so I knew her true colors came out yesterday and I’m glad..