FWB wants to get me pregnant
My (30F) FWB (30M) has now said for the 4th time he wants me to get me pregnant. Backstory: we’ve been hooking up since we were 16yrs old. I used to have a big crush on him but that faded because he used to be so selfish during sex only caring about him finishing & his needs. I stopped messing with him when I was 19, years go by now I’m 23 he hits me up & we link up.
The sex is phenomenal out of this world i didn’t even know my body can feel that way do those things. He was a whole new person from when we were younger making it all about me my pleasure was his pleasure he used to never want to eat me out now he devours me from front to back there isn’t an inch of my body that hasn’t been in his mouth and idk how but he lasts so damn long without cumming! I’m always tapping out before him and he keeps going I can’t count the amount of orgasms he gives me. the sex is out of this world and I’ve never met a man that comes close to making me feel how he does.
Anyway fast forward we’ve been hooking up all these years on & off. Now the last 5 years have been different. He tells me he loves me during sex, at first he’d say it under his breath & I’d ask him what he said he wouldn’t repeat it like, he didn’t mean for me to hear that it slipped out during the moment but now he says it all the time. He confesses his love to me. Every time now he says ”I’m in love with you, I always been in love with you since we were kids, I love you so much” I felt weird saying it back so id say “I love your dick/i love fucking you” because I do & I know he doesn’t love me forreal. Well idk…
any way fast forward to last year we’re having sex & he blurts out “i want you to have my baby so bad just tell me when you’re ready I’ll do anything for you“ …killed the mood for me lowkey. like why are you saying this while inside of me?! that didnt feel right in my spirit so I left while he was sleep…but I came back after some time 🙃 but everytime after he keeps saying he wants me to have his baby.
Now for the most recent time…it’s the I love you’s but this time it’s different, as he’s telling me he loves me I say “tell me what you love about me”…Yall why this man talk about everything but my body/sex! He said he loves my mind, how I inspire him, how I talk to him, our conversation, our time together, how I am focused, how smart I am, how I chase my dream, and much more! all while he’s stroking me!! Then he grabs my hand, interlocked fingers, while saying this just confessing his love. It’s was beautiful & romantic not gonna lie. Then this man stopped mid stroke & asked me to pinky promise him, pinky out and we shook on it lol
After this it’s full blown baby talk, “I want to get you pregnant so bad, I want you to have my baby I’m so serious” I can’t even respond to the sex talk properly cause idk what to say to that?! After round 3 & we’re chilling I joke around saying “pussy so good got you ready to risk it all” he looked at me dead in my face & said im not playing I want to get you pregnant. the night proceeds more rounds of amazing sex and now he doesn’t want to use condoms anymore even went as far as taking it off, I made him stop he did but could tell he was disappointed after that
…I’m just so confused as to why he wants to ruin a good thing with a baby! does he really love me? Or does he just want to be tied to me? do men actually fall in love with their fwbs? so many questions I’m confused & if I bring it up I know he will probably ignore it...help!! What does this mean in men brains?? Why would he want a baby but not commitment?? What does this mean?!