u/arxnai

I’ve been with my boyfriend for 5 years and we were happy overall. No big fight or anything, so this came out of nowhere.

3 days ago he texted me saying he wants to leave—no reason, no explanation. He said he’s deleting social media and doesn’t want anything or anyone right now. When I tried to ask why, he just said “don’t insist.”

Then he said he’ll toss a coin—if it’s heads, he’ll come back in a year, if it’s tails, he won’t. And he won’t even tell me the result.

I feel really hurt and confused. After 5 years, being treated like this feels so disrespectful.

Is this just his way of ending things without saying it? Any guys who can give advice?