u/anotterbytrade

Hey all, I’ve been chatting with an INFJ who, from where I’m standing, has been pursuing me. Consistent texting for months, sharing history etc. on our last call he asked me about kids and marriage. When I brought it up, however, he said he just wants friendship. I feel confused and super hurt! It really seemed like he wanted more, he was even joking about coming to see me and mentioned places near him he wanted to take me. Now I don’t even know if I want to stay friends tbh.

I’m chatting with an INFJ who I think is a mutual crush. He messages every day and has for months. Just recently on a call he asked me about kids and marriage. It’s long distance though so we haven’t really talked about it, other than acknowledging mutual interest, and then basically staying in constant contact since.

Idk what to do. I want to ask but I don’t want to be too forward and hurt the dynamic. But I think not knowing is not good for me?