u/anona10

Help what would u do in this situation

I (26F) have been dating my boyfriend ( 26M ) for 3 years now and we re very much soulmates. we re currently students and we still have about a year until graduation. for context we live in a third world country and everyone s biggest dream is to study or work abroad in Europe or the US and it was also a dream of both of us before we ever met. the problem is I got the opportunity to move abroad and at the same time his dreams got crushed of living abroad due to family and financial issues. since that we realized that we probably don't have a future together and we were crushed. he said he wants me to take the opportunity because he wants a better life for me even if it's away from him. it was a dream for me and I ve worked really hard for it but I also can't let go of him. every day I m tourmented with this problematic.i cry myself to sleep every night thinking about losing him. I know if I stayed in our country I m gonna regret not pursuing a better career abroad. but I can't imagine my life without him. at the moment we re still dating and we still love each other but I feel like we slowly mourning our relationship before it ends for good. what would u do if you were me ?

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u/anona10 — 8 hours ago