Anyone else unable to orgasm w/ a partner?
I have situational anorgasmia. For me, this means I have never orgasmed with a partner but, have no problem managing it on my own.
It has always bothered me because I’m able to get my partners off no problem—multiple orgasms in a session and, not tooting my own horn, but they tell me that they’ve “never met anyone like me”. It’s nice for the ego, but the blow comes when it’s my turn and it just won’t happen.
I give instruction and they follow it to a T. They pleasure me for hours and nothing happens. It’s just a steady pleasurable sensation with occasional jumps in intensity but… largely staying on the same frequency (in terms of how my body registers what they’re doing).
There’s no mounting pleasure. It’s just steady.
I know it must be a psychological block but, I just don’t know what to do. Sex therapists aren’t covered by insurance and out of pocket costs often start at $200 for a 45-min session. Ugh, way out of my price range.
Anybody else experience this? Were you able to fix it? If so, how?
Sincerely,
Miss Clit Clot