(esfj) friend never lets me talk about my interests
(24, F) am in a friendgroup with two other girls. One is Infj and one is Esfj. The Infj shares some of my interests, for example I can talk to her about movies and TV shows. The Esfj is not interested in any media (wild I know). She only listens to music veryyy casually in the car and she never watches any shows or movies. The online content she consumes is mostly mainstream female influencers. She also doesn‘t know anything about pop culture.
Both of these friends are kind of chronically offline (opposite of me). Usually when we meet up we talk about real life stuff like work, studying, family etc. I am fine talking about this stuff bc I want to know how everyone is doing etc. but honestly at some point it gets boring. With my other friends I usually talk about our favorite artists and stuff we‘ve seen recently a lot, concerts we went to etc. and it‘s very fun for me to talk about this stuff.
So when I‘m with this infj and esfj friend (we mostly meet up as trio but now and then also one on one). I sometimes (maybe after 2 or 3 hours of cacthing up) bring up something like a movie I‘ve seen recently and ask the infj if she‘s heard of it/ seen it. Then she might follow up with mentioning a show she has enjoyed recently. Now, I know the esfj friend doesn‘t enjoy media but still I think that she could particpate in this convo like ask why I liked it so much or what it is about etc. But every time I bring up a topic like that she immediately gets dead silent. In a way that makes it really obvipus that she‘s kind of annoyed or very disinterested. So the infj and me will stop talking about it after at most 10 minutes bc it’s uncomfortable. At this point this behaviour from esfj annoys me because no matter what she talks about I will ask questions and give my opinion and let her talk about it even when it‘s boring to me. I feel like she can talk to me about over 90% of the stuff she wants to talk about and I can only talk about like 20%. It comes off as self centred to me and the older I get the more fed up I am getting with stuff like that.
Does anyone else have this issue? I might sound dramatic but to me it‘s kind of a big deal and it kind of makes me dislike her.